I'm writing this after another inspirational visit with Ian in hospital. On the afternoon of the crash Ian tossed up between swatting up on a simulator test for work and going for a bike ride. Bike ride won. But does Ian waste time thinking” if only I had done my swat” ? No. He sees it as a great opportunity to review life.
The window you choose might have lead to catastrophe but there is no alternative in this timeline, what's done is done. It's important to be looking forward not wasting energy with looking backward.
An image made in Cambodia now I know what it means.